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Married to female, later in life am attracted to dicks
I have to ask the question, I have been married to my female wife for MANY years, and always thought I fit into heterosexual category.
However in the last 1 to 2 years, I have become VERY interested in penis, mainly sucking and being sucked. I have never done either and have never received or given in the back side, but am curious.
I am MOST curious about giving and receiving head, I think that would be fun.
How many has or are in my same position? (Married to wife with children, and don’t want to disrupt there life style, but dip into an exciting arena) I know I can’t be the only one. Given my geographical location, I do not think there is a snow balls chance in hell, I will ever have the opportunity, but just want to field the question. Any input would be great. Sometimes at night I wake up thinking about it, but it might just be the unknown that is attracting me, but how can I know if I never have the chance?

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I've been married to my wife for 27 years, I love her with all my heart and our sex life is still fantastic. I would never give up pussy, but yeah in the last several years I definitely have a thing for cock. My wife knows this, knows I'm on here and participates in many of my pics, and she fucks me with a strap-on whenever we're in the mood. I would love to suck a hot dick, very curious about taking one up my ass and would be happy to top as well. She's been pretty encouraging and has a great attitude towards sex and kinks, so who knows it just may come true one of these days.

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In the same boat
Like you guys, I have been married a loooong time (49 years), but in the last 12, due to medical problems, no more wifely duties! I too found myself wondering what it would be like to have some cock. I happened to get lucky with a long time friend who was also faithful til his wife died. After beating around the bush for a while, we finally got naked and had some fun. Unfortunately as with a lot of people our age, He moved away to Virginia to live with his daughter. I am back to solo sex and fantasies. I can say that after fantasizing about it for a long time, It is really amazing to finally get a cock in your mouth!! raspberry

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I got curious about cock and sex with guys in my 30s. I had just gotten divorced and was living in a rented room in a house that all the other guys were either gay or bi. It got me thinking about it I guess. I had a few experiences that I very much enjoyed, but I still mostly like women. I met my second wife and we’ve been married now for 20 years. I think about sex with guys still.

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Married men interested in man-to-man activities are a lot of fun to play with. I suggest you start by getting a blow job. Men and boys are really good at that. One step at a time, ease into the other pleasures smile

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harrygoodnough3
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I've been more and more attracted to dicks since I started posting my cock on the web. I discovered that most of the views, comments and faves were coming from men. I'm fascinated by cut cocks and purple swollen glans.

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You are not alone. Love my wife very much but have been curious about having sex with older men, and acted upon it about 4 months ago, and it is fantastic.
Took me a long time to work up to it, but is well worth it if you can find a man in a similar situation whom understands due to having the same desire.

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Married to female, later in life am attracted to dicks
, Thanks for the encouragement, Panther. I guess hope springs eternal. Although eternity is getting closer all the time.

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I had my first oral experience with a male when I was 18. It was very exciting but, for me, I was still all about the females. Got married at 22. We had a pretty active sex life which included a lot of bisexual fantasys. A few short years in, we had a couple 3ways with a male friend. The second time I stroked and sucked him. But still, I was more focused on the females.

I soon began to find pussy on the side. After a while, I found myself viewing more and more gay porn and visiting gay chat rooms. Soon I was a regular on several gay websites. I had the itch. Eventually, I hooked up with a guy, we swapped oral and I was hooked.

I'm now married for the second time, female. Love her to death but just got to have cock! I have a fairly active, but secret sex life with men. I know, some day that will come back to haunt me but it is what it is.

Still have sex with my wife, occasionally, but I find man on man sex way more satisfying. And my experience has found its much easier to find men to play with than women, with a lot less drama too.

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I have become very interested in cock. Married and love M-F sex but so want to try a cock. Sucking one being fucked by one. Have used wife’s didldos on my self but the real thing I think would be so much better. In Ohio

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Hi mwm 75
I am married for 58 years and my wife been sick a few years I do take care of her buy have not had pussy for a wile and I got curious so I meet a couple of guys we cam first and I loved what I saw he had a great looking cock that got me hooked and I am in my 70 + so always looking and enjoying cock raspberry jerk

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Wives into Bi Men
Do you all know just how many women and wives want men/husband's Bi? They masturbate to watching us with Boyfriends and love being a Cuckqueane.

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I have been married for 35 years. Before getting married, I had one m2m encounter. I sucked his cock but didn’t swAllow his cum. After being married for 15-20 years, wife and I stopped having sex. I started thinking about cock again and on a work trip, I ended up sucking two guys and swallowing their cum. I probably had oral sex with another 15 guys since. I love being naked with a guy and having his penis in my mouth and think about it all the time jerk jerk

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Michiganjacker248
I agree with you about how much easier it is to find men for sex. I also agree that with women there is too much drama. Guys just want to have fun and get each other off. I sucked my first cock a few years earlier than you and loved it right off. His cock felt great in my mouth and his cum was delicious. I'm married to a female (36 years), our sex is pretty good but only once a week. I crave cock 6 days a week!!

luvpantyz said: I had my first oral experience with a male when I was 18. It was very exciting but, for me, I was still all about the females. Got married at 22. We had a pretty active sex life which included a lot of bisexual fantasys. A few short years in, we had a couple 3ways with a male friend. The second time I stroked and sucked him. But still, I was more focused on the females.

I soon began to find pussy on the side. After a while, I found myself viewing more and more gay porn and visiting gay chat rooms. Soon I was a regular on several gay websites. I had the itch. Eventually, I hooked up with a guy, we swapped oral and I was hooked.

I'm now married for the second time, female. Love her to death but just got to have cock! I have a fairly active, but secret sex life with men. I know, some day that will come back to haunt me but it is what it is.

Still have sex with my wife, occasionally, but I find man on man sex way more satisfying. And my experience has found its much easier to find men to play with than women, with a lot less drama too.


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I haven’t found it easier to find a guy for sex. I just want the sex part not looking for relationship. A fuck buddy we can hook up to just get each other off. Have sex regular with the wife but do crave a cock to suck and fuck

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Married to female
I got into guys when I was 14. A friend and I got naked on a tent one night and thoroughly explored each other. During my 29 year marriage to my first wife I got with a couple guys for sex and had a mfm 3 way. She died and I am remarried in a sexless marriage.
With this history I tell you that I look forward to the opportunities to get with a guy for sex. Love the sucking but really get into being fucked. NM is not a place of a lot of choices so it is limited. Just waiting for the next time.

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Bobandrews840 said: I have become very interested in cock. Married and love M-F sex but so want to try a cock. Sucking one being fucked by one. Have used wife’s didldos on my self but the real thing I think would be so much better. In Ohio

43 yrs married, same as above, and she knows I want to try cock. In Florida

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I get it both ways
My wife doesn't fuck anymore and she is just happy to have me eat her pussy a couple of times a month. So I ow get with my male lover a couple of time a week we just suck and suck. We both love 69 and since he is a bottom I enjoy sliding my dick into his tight hot love hole!


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kinky4samelsd
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My first orgasm was with another guy as a teenager. I love 69ing with him. I tried being straight but sexually I’m gay. Nothing I want more than cock cum and ass

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Wow, I feel like a cliche
I am in my 60’s; wife’s libido has all but died. Do not want the bs associated with having a woman lover (a huge conversation).
A cpl years ago, got together with a long time friend. We would play n suck when he was in town.
Covid killed his traveling; looking forward to getting together in a few months.

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I was basically abused by my cousin of 14 when I was 9 years old. He lured me into my grandfather's dog kennel storage shed and was telling me all about sex. As a nine year old, I was enthused of course, until after telling me about girls sucking cock, he whipped his hard dick out and said, "Here, try it...You do me and I'll do you." I refused. He then said he would tell my grandfather I was jacking his dog off and he (my cousin) caught me. I was terrified...My grandfather loved his dogs and told all the grandchildren to stay away from them because they were hunting dogs, not pets. My cousin said you'll get your ass beat good and be grounded for life, so I relented and sucked his cock. I was not aware or prepared for when he came. He almost chocked me to death with his large load of cum. He yanked up his pants, laughed and left me there, covered with cum, gasping. I hated him and still do. BUT...some years later, after despising male to male sex......at the age of 54, with a wife that turned frigid after menopause, I started watching porn...but male-female only. One day as I was Jacking off and watching a big titted babe sucking a guys cock, she rolled over and exposed a HUGE cock on herself too. I continued jacking and watching. I re-evaluated my idea of sucking cock that day and watched many videos of cock sucking males and shot massive loads. I joined men's sites like NDN, SD, and others after five years, met a guy from SD and sucked his cock...and he mine. It was glorious and I was hooked on sucking cock. I now have him and a closer neighbor guy, and we suck each other's cocks anytime we can. I now thoroughly love my wife without question, sucking cock and eating cum...even my own! jerk raspberry yahoo My advice to anyone wondering...TRY IT, you'll like it!

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reply and yes i am like you
I have been married for 43 years and like you actively seek out men for my sexual pleasure. I have sucked and been sucked and I have had the pleasure of a few penises making love to me (loved it by the way)
My first taste of cock was age 13 - and then the next was at age 35.
I am now exclusively gay as my wife and i no longer make love - not through her fault but my permanent interest in men

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I'm in agreement with the other posters, wife lost her libido years ago. Given a choice I would probably chose pussy over cock, but like the other posters said, too much drama with a woman, a man is much more convenient. I'm oral only, but it's awesome, I especially like sucking cock while mines being sucked (69). Done some King of Clubs frottage/masturbation, that's awesome as well. That position works best if the 2 cocks are close in length.

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Doing it “with a guy”,
I have always had a major sex-drive. The first several years (second wife) were hot beyond belief but then things tapered off finally to “two or three times a year” and a lot of masturbation on my part. After 4 or 5 years on NDN I finally hit it off with someone here in the local area and it’s better than I had ever hoped. We’re pretty much both in the same boat at home but we’re both “senior citizens” so there is no “rampant erection” but the feeling of orgasm is still wonderful beyond belief. We try and meet every few weeks (too far apart) and just sit in the back of my Tahoe, talk, touch/feel each other, suck each others cocks, nipples, etc. but short of having a place to really “get it on”, that’s what we do. We both find it extremely satisfying to just sit and talk in each other’s presence and touch as we want. We don’t have that opportunity at home and we enjoy our time together. He has worked at stretching his “pussy” for a number of years and if we had a place, he wants me to fuck his ass (pussy as we call it). Our meetings are warm and wonderful being naked and able to just sit, look, touch, suck and talk!

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A few years after my divorce I started buying gay porn (no access to internet then) and finally found local gay/bi saunas thru a local paper called the AdMag and began using 3 local gay saunas for the pleasure of seeing and playing with other guys cocks. Soon moved on to finding out how good a cock tastes and also other guys cum !

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You are not alone.
It's very common for men to become more interested in M2M sex, especially later in life. Everyone's tastes and situation change over time. I am married, three kids, and sucked my first dick at age 57. I have been on gay hookup sites and met many guys just like me, and some are surprisingly close.

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Like most guys here, I am also married, but for the past 10 years I have had a healthy active male on male fuck sessions.
This has included one off random guys and regular fuck buddies and I do suck and blow other guys as well as top or bottom with and without protection.
Having said that, I love cock but at the same time, I also do a STD test every 6 months and have only unprotected sex with guys that I have been with for a while, never with randoms.

Does my wife, the answer is yes. She knew before we got married that Iwas bi havng slept with both male and females before we committed, but although I behaved myself for many years, a chance meeting with an old fuck buddy lead me back to once again enjoying a nice hard cock.

If you are curious, then go for it, sucking cock is a great sensation and you should fill that desire. just make sure if you are gong to fuck that you douche or clean your arse, and if you go BB, get a regular STD test.


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Me too
Oh yes, I’m married but fantasize about cocks, almost daily. I come to this site regularly to view cocks and stroke mine! I kinda think that change in thinking might be more common than you think. And although I would still love to have some sexual encounters with a buddy, sadly I still have not had the opportunity to enjoy that experience!

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Yup
I got curious when I was in my 30s. I had gotten divorced and rented a room in a house where all the other tenants were either gay or bi. It got me thinking. I sucked my first cock there. I figured out that I like cock too, but didn’t really do anything about it again for another 10 years. Cocks are fun to play with, so is pussy.

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Married -> dicks
After 23 years of marriage and a divorce, I had the freedom to explore the gay side of life. I've always been curious about cocks and assholes since I was 10 years old, and it was exciting to try the other side. To this day, I still prefer women, but I've found sex with men far easier to find, and I have become quite fond of sucking a nice cock to completion. I've done anal a couple of times, once not so great, the other quite enjoyable.

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I’ve been married couple of times. Never cared for the sex. Was curious about cock for along time Then at age of forty I finally tried it and never looked back!!!! Cock is for me!!! Don’t care if I never have pussy again!!! Love gay sex!!! I’m happily Gay

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