f4gg0tb1tch said: I've been to one and I didn't enjoy it for a few reasons. It wasn't very sexy and there weren't many people there. There also seemed to be an assumption that if you were there you were up for anything with anyone and that wasn't a pleasant situation to be in. If I ever went to one again, I'd want to go with a group of friends, I think; just so the whole thing was less intimidating.
Choosing the right time to visit ANY sauna is key to fun times, I've been to one local sauna mentioned on my Profile that was very busy one particular Saturday afternoon with a mini orgy going on in the sauna and another in the video lounge. On another Saturday is was very quiet with only 3 others using the venue, like most things it's 'pot luck'.
I'd say try late afternoon to catch those leaving work, maybe from 3.30pm onwards or Friday and through the weekend can be popular, you are trying to read the mind of others, unless you've made arrangements to meet someone.
Others must NEVER assume that because you are with other naked males, that you are expected to have all forms of sex with ANYONE. To me that is silly, we all have our own personal likes and dislikes, I've found that many guys just like to be wanked or sucked or kissed. The choice is yours what you do and who you do it with.
I've found that just a polite shake of the head and a 'no thanks' is all that's needed to ward off those unwanted approaches we all get at some stage. Don't be put off by pushey people in any sauna, NO means NO and I do hope you give it another chance !