I'd like to hear from other guys about getting started or their experiences ass from mature men who started late.
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I'd like to hear from other guys about getting started or their experiences ass from mature men who started late.
So preparation - the right partner helps, someone not too big, and understanding. Plenty of lube, some hole fingering helps loosen it. To prepare yourself you might get hold of a butt plug or dildo.
Good luck. Let us know how you get on.
If you have a dildo of similar size to your partner, then you can practice a little bit. It doesn't have to be pleasure, but just no pain is kinda enough to make sure you can accommodate penis of that size.
He said “Happy 21st birthday! Let’s fuck! I topped him first then I gave him my virgin bottom. Best birthday ever!!!
Even though he was gentle and took his time, it was a little painful to start with. Eventually, I relaxed and he was able to fully enter me...he was around 7". Once he was in and I was relaxed he pumped slow and easy until he filled his condom.
It was the start of me needing to be fucked. Since then, I have had many men and now like it on the rougher side...pound my ass!
I did have a semi regular guy a few years ago who was very much a making love kind of guy. Sex with him was wonderful and included a lot of caressing and cuddling. I liked that a lot but still I'm a slut at heart.
I, too, was sitting on a guy's lap and he started working the head of his cock into my ass. We had lubed already from the fingers and toys that preceded. He just let the head rest in there and I got used to it; then he pushed in a couple more inches and the feeling was wonderful. Soon he was balls deep and moving slowly in and out. I was jerking mine and came before he did. He stayed inside while he went soft afterwards, and the full feeling remained. I'll always remember him and his cock.
I asked...how or why?
He said because he got very exited the day before and he couldn't release himself.
I didn't know what the hell he was talking about but he asked me that if I wanted to see it again.
I said. Ok
So he took it out and got close to me. I was sitting on a brick and that thing was right in front of my face, so close I could smell it. He was very exited and said: "just touch it once ok?"
So I did.
That was a Friday...
Things escalated from there very fast.
The next Monday I was so exited and rushing my mom to finish his meal. Lol. So I could bring it up to him.
That Monday he made me suck his cock along with his testicles. He kept telling me that if I said something to anybody, the police would take him to jail and there they would kill him. So he made me swear I wouldn't tell anybody. Plus. As a bonus, omg lol. I was so innocent... He would show me how the babies were made. So. Of course I never said a word to nobody just because I wanted to know something that neither of my friends knew!!!
So I was kind of greedy lol.
That day he was very busy but told me that the next day he would teach me how babies were made.
So the next day, he asked me to bring some butter from the fridge. I ran down and up stairs in a second.!!!
He told me that I had to pull my shorts down. I asked why? And he said... Well... You want to know about the babies or not???
So I pulled my shorts down and he bended me over and started to put butter in my asshole. I started to feel his finger going in little by little then out then in again. He asked me if it hurts and I said no. So he started to slide a second finger. I remember my little penis was very hard and my heart at my throat again.
He said ok I think you are ready.
I asked innocently... That is how?
He laughed again and said noooo.
Then he proceed to take his penis out for me to suck it. So I did.
After a minute he got more butter and started to finger me again. This time it was way easier. As I felt more fingers inside.
He placed me on all fours and kept opening my asshole.
Next time I knew I started feeling something more soft but firm sliding in.
When I noticed both of his hands holding me by my hips I realized he was pushing his penis inside my asshole.
It was an enormous sensation of fullness.
I felt his pubic hairs touching my buttocks. Then he pushed me forward then back again.
After a couple of minutes he filled my rectum with his sperm.
He pulled out and made me lick his penis clean.
I again asked innocently... Now what?
He laughed again and said... That's it!
That's haw adults make babies.
But aren't the girls who can have babies? I asked.
He said... yes but this is how it's done.
Of course the girls have another hole where your penis and balls are located and that's where you are going to put your penis one day ok? But this is how it's done.
Did you like it?
I said yes.
So he kept doing that to me until months later that he finished hour second floor.
I never said a word to nobody.
It is an old stream this one. Very likely, you have gotten your deed done already. If not... be patient, do not rush.
I have seen all too much that is a sort of pride "to take a cock", as if it was a sort of pageant or health demonstration. Please do not sacrifice yourself for making things too fast.
Let your partner know that you are ready, and relax to accommodate to his girth. You have a magnificent cock, but trying something like that in a virgin pooper is highly inefficient, from the pleasure point of view. Make him push and wait; a little pain is okay, but it must not really hurt; you dont want to get bruised there, as you will not be able to repeat soon. A considerate lover must look for his pal's enjoyment, as well as his own. And let him know you are having a good time thanks to him.
MY PERSONAL point of view, is that I enjoy the most when my friend's butthole spasms around my cock, and I help his sperm to shoot harder with my knob contribution over his prostate. This triggers my own orgasm in a delicious communion of pleasure, health and fun.
I have had not so great experiences being topped.
My best experience was with a FWB.
He kind of did what your guy did.
Played with my butthole with fingers, start eating my ass, apply some lube then finally slowly enter me. Every time it was amazing.
Everyone has their own style and desires. Respect them, cultivate them.