I am only curious, but I would really like to change my status to first time and beyond. Not looking for a one night stand or a hookup. I want to be safe and a lasting committed relationship. Physical is very important, but once will never be enough. So, I want more with a like minded guy that is willing to build trust and start slow, then we can grow together. Any suggestions would be appreciated. I still want to discrete but I want a fun relationship to share with. Any ideas of the best/safe sites to find the right person? Thanks in advance…