I have considered my self bi since I was in my early 20's. I was married young and living in "Puritanical" Boston, MA. There was an underground newspaper called "Boston After Dark" that ran adds from swingers and gay/bi men. As a young well hung Black man in the 60's, I was sought after bi older married White guys who wanted to see a Black man fuck his wife. My wife and I had amazing sex but I was curious about "recreational sex", and answered a few of these adds, met a number of couples and a few gay/bi men for fun sex!

After my divorce I went straight for years and in my early 50's the urge to have M2M sex came roaring back. By now, the "Combat Zone" was gone, no more ABS, strip joints or even under ground papers. This was before the internet and the sexual explosion people can enjoy today. I only had "swingers' magazines to make contact but managed to meet a few guys from time to time.

Then in my late 60's medical issues came up and at the same time internet sites like Craigs' List and others were popping up everywhere. I became a viewer of sexual sites rather than a participant. I posted an honest add on another site stating the hardon is hard to achieve but I still enjoyed sucking cock. Just this past week a man answered my add, and we met for coffee (just because you have a cock doesn't mean I'll suck it). There has to be a connection or some kind of interest. He was my height, a little soft around the middle (like me) but not fat at all. He was very good looking, White, in his early 60's, professional and open minded. His wife had lost interest in sex and he didn't want another woman so men seemed like a good, safe alternative for him. He wasn't interested in anal (neither am I) but just wanted to watch some hot porn and either jerk off or get his dick sucked. He tried ABS but was nervous about sticking his cock in a whole in the wall. We hit it off right away and UI invited him to my condo. I'm retired, live alone with a great collection of porn.