I am seeking friends with or without benefits. While I am still in the closet, I feel more comfortable around gay and bisexual men and women. Sex does not have to dominate conversations, but it is not avoided in the natural course of a friendly discussion. I am open to most activities as long as they do not include extreme pain, humiliation and/or degradation. Although I have more experience as a top, I much prefer the bottom or more submissive position or role. In addition, I like giving pleasure more than receiving. But will definitely not refuse getting as good as I give.